Writing is not for Slackers

Writing is not for slackers. Even though I know lots of slacker writers. Myself, for instance.

At least lately.

The thing about writing, at least in this day and age, is that you don’t have to write. No one is making you write. There are very few real writing jobs.

Getting published is more challenging than ever. If you are serious about it, then you have to be working your ass off. Kind of literally, as it requires a lot of ‘butt in chair’ time.

And even if you do get published, odds are, you won’t make much. At least not enough to justify the time it takes to be published.

Unless you are one of the plethora of writers who also teach, edit, ghostwrite, and/or sell some kind of writing service.

Writing just because you love to? That’s fine. It’s probably why 95% of writers write.

There was a time, not that long ago, when you could write and make a little money. I remember writing articles and being paid $1200 for them! But that was before the internet swallowed up nearly all the print publications.

Back to my original point. If you want to make a living writing, you have to be willing to work hard, be your own task master, and, too often, write to the audience (or SEO).

I admire the people who are ‘writing’ for a living. I understand how much work and sacrifice it takes. They are redefining what it means to be a professional writer.

But what about the rest of us?

Here is my advice, for what it’s worth:

Write every day. Build your writing muscles. You will need their strength and their clarity.

Don’t worry too much about who will read it. Honesty placates when it thinks it’s being watched. You can’t speak truth if you are concerned about judgment.

Write from your brave heart. Don’t imitate. Don’t aim to please. Don’t worry about offending or being embarrassed or misunderstood. Those reactions are out of your control.

Use your words to make the world better. Speaking up takes courage. But it also joins hearts and comforts souls. Words can be powerful; they can lift up, and they can tear down. Use your words for good.

Use your words to find yourself. They can help you understand what you believe and what you want and who you are. Listen to your core. There is so much to learn from yourself if you let the words flow onto the page without censure.

As I said, writing is not for slackers.

I think this post may be a letter to myself. Maybe it’s a letter to you if you need to hear it.

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Hey, thanks for reading. I know you’ve got lots of options, so thanks for sharing a few of your minutes with me.

Honored,

Cara

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cover of the book Live Intentionally: A daily journal for living on purpose

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What Are YOU Doing with Your New Year?

I love new years—the fresh starts, new habits, and the grand opportunity to leave a few things behind.

Every year I create challenges for myself. No one tells me to do it and there’s no great reward at the end. The stakes are basically nothing. Sometimes, I invite others to join me, which, at least on the surface, creates a little accountability.

Last year, I created the Lighten Your Load, Lighten Your Life challenge. I planned to let go of five ‘things’ every day, all year.

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Our True Character

The title of the chapter is ‘False Starts’. It’s about characters, essentially, how they change the longer we hang out with them. There’s a deeper truth running through this chapter, though, one that we all can probably learn from whether we write or not.

This might be my favorite chapter in Bird by Bird. It’s super short (all the chapters are short, but this one is only four pages). And it is mostly the story of Anne visiting a nursing home for years despite the fact that she hated going there.

The nursing home illustration shows that once you strip away a person’s outer beauty and busyness, you are left with who they are at their core—and often, that’s nothing like the outer covering.

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Giving It All Away

Just so you know, I’m privately panicking, occasionally wandering around my house muttering and distracting myself with dogs and wine.

My next novel is less than a month from its drop date. This one comes out with a small press that leaves all the marketing to me.

Have I mentioned that I didn’t study marketing in school? I was a music major. (In other words, my parents donated a lot of money to a small private college in VA.)

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SHOW YOUR WORK: Make the time   

Technically, there wasn’t time for work today. That doesn’t mean I didn’t work.

I drove three hours south to our tiny cabin in VA, where I’ll be for the next ten days. We are in the final stages of finishing renovating it and preparing it to become a rental (which makes me sad because it is my favorite place in the world these days). The next ten days are the push – put on new steps/deck, deal with a water issue once and for all, build an entry path from parking area to house, plus a million little finish details inside and create the website to start renting it.

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That will all get done. It will. But my book’s release date is only getting closer, so at the same time, I have to find the time to do the work to promote it.

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SHOW YOUR WORK Even If It Scares You

Today was a day of reaching out for help.

I worked on letters to the adopters of dogs mentioned in the book, dog-friends, friend-friends, and dog-related media. I didn’t send many of them out. It’s hard to ask for help, even though help is what I need.

I am not very technically gifted and the internet and social media still baffle me on a regular basis. I have to ask my daughter for help navigating Instagram (is it really not very user friendly or am I just old?).  My nebulous hold on Twitter is getting stronger, but I’m way behind on hashtags. I gave up on Tumblr and abandoned the blog I have there. Even Zoom flummoxed me today.

I’ve decided to focus on Facebook. So, today I created a page, just for the new book!

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You can like/follow here, and I would be SUPER DUPER happy if you did. I’d be even happier if you set clicked the little notification tab and agreed to have FB send you notifications when stuff happens on that page.

It’s a first step. A late first step, but a step nonetheless.

Next step is to recruit a ‘launch team.’ I’m still figuring out what a launch team will do, but thankfully, I have the help of a skilled and experienced writer and dog-hearted person who offered to help me. Tomorrow we ZOOM to figure out the plan.

I’m a pretty self-reliant person. I hate to ask others to do for me, and when I do, I rarely ask directly. I usually drop hints, complain of how I am overloaded, and even occasionally when it comes to my children, employ guilt.

But, you know what? I can’t do this by myself and this is too important not to do it well. So, once again, setting my big fat ego aside, and moving forward.

Once I understand how the launch team will work, I’ll send out more of those carefully crafted letters and hope that a few of my people will want to join my team and help make this book and its message a success.

Scared?

Yes, I am. But pretty much everything about writing, or at least publishing, is scary.

So bring on the monsters.

I’m ready.

Or at least I will be.

Hey, thanks for reading. I know you’ve got lots of options, so thanks for sharing a few of your minutes with me.

Honored,

Cara Sue Achterberg with pupCara

If you’re curious about what I’m up to, check out my website, CaraWrites.com.

If you’d like to subscribe to my (sometimes) monthly e-newsletter, click here.

And If you’re a dog lover, check out my other blog, Another Good Dog. And if you want to know what is really happening in the animal shelters in this county, visit, Who Will Let the Dogs Out.

I’d love to connect with you on Facebook, twitter, or Instagram, and I’m thrilled to get email from readers (and writers), you can reach me at carasueachterberg@gmail.com.

COMING JULY 2020 from Pegasus books (available for preorder):

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Find out more about fostering dogs at AnotherGoodDog.org!

 

SHOW YOUR WORK Even When You’re In a Hurry, Hurry, Hurry  

AH! I almost forgot to write this Show Your Work post. Sorry, but this is gonna be a quick slap it together in ten minutes.

What did I do today that I can show you?

Not so much. I worked on two articles for two different publications, both of which have invited me to write about the shelter situation and highlight what I learned while working on my newest book, 100 Dogs. It’s a great opportunity to reach new minds and hearts with the situation in the shelters. Both are dog-oriented magazines.

I have the basic articles finished, but now comes the hard part. I think of it as carving. I have to shave off the parts that don’t work and polish the better parts so that what I’m trying to say is clear and center-staged and not dragged off down the wrong alley on a tangent like I so often tend to do. Wow. That was a horrible mixing of metaphors. But I’m going to leave them there because there’s no time to fix it and I’m just about worded out.

I also wrote a quick blog post on my foster dog blog which begged for help, shared the link to my the first episode of my podcast, and explained why my foster dog was dropped at the vet’s for two days.

Other than that, I continued my frenetic begging of reviewers for my book and practiced reading on my laptop’s camera app so I can record me reading the first chapter of the new book for a promtional. That was kind of fun – although painful for me to look at my old self. I did figure out which side of the laptop to place my book on so as to not highlight quite as many wrinkles. (Sorry. Vanity. I’m working on it.)

I think that’s it. Now I’ve got to buzz out of here to celebrate my daughter’s 21rst birthday with Indian food and Key Lime Cheesecake!

Happy Tuesday. Hope you are writing. I’m still waiting for one of you to ‘share your work’ with me in the comments! Or maybe just give me your thoughts on Austin Kleon’s book, Share Your Work. I’m still working my way through it. It’s at least half picture-book. I wish there was more substance and less cheerleading and pictures. At least it motivated me to get writing on this blog, though. That’s a good thing.

Write on and read on, my friends. And share your work in the comments, just so I don’t think I’m writing into a vacuum.

Hey, thanks for reading. I know you’ve got lots of options, so thanks for sharing a few of your minutes with me.

Cara Sue Achterberg with pupHonored,

Cara

If you’re curious about what I’m up to, check out my website, CaraWrites.com.

If you’d like to subscribe to my (sometimes) monthly e-newsletter, click here.

And If you’re a dog lover, check out my other blog, Another Good Dog. And if you want to know what is really happening in the animal shelters in this county, visit, Who Will Let the Dogs Out.

I’d love to connect with you on Facebook, twitter, or Instagram, and I’m thrilled to get email from readers (and writers), you can reach me at carasueachterberg@gmail.com.

COMING JULY 2020 from Pegasus books (available for preorder):

100 dogs cover

Available now:

Another Good Dog cover

Find out more about fostering dogs at AnotherGoodDog.org!

 

SHOW YOUR WORK Controlling What You Can Control   

Lately much of my life feels out of my control, not the least of which is this challenge of releasing a book in the time of COVID.

Today I spent my entire day begging for reviewers on Instagram, WordPress, Twitter, and pretty much anywhere I could find a dog-friendly writer (or bookstagrammer or bookblogger) who might be interested in reading my book and reviewing it on their platform.

100 dogs coverThis frenetic activity was triggered by the news that Continue reading “SHOW YOUR WORK Controlling What You Can Control   “

SHOW YOUR WORK: Even If You Can’t See It

Today I am sad.

Everywhere I turn there is righteous anger and unspeakable injustice and unfair generalizations and misinformed assumptions and I hurt.

Hurt. Hurt. Hurt.

This hurt loaded on top of the fear and uncertainty that has become a part of our days. My right shoulder, that always lets me know when my load is too large, is burning. My stomach, which recoils at conflict, sadness or frustration is churning.

I’m craving quiet but Continue reading “SHOW YOUR WORK: Even If You Can’t See It”